You date a trans man, and you can accept the body of your
trans dating partner, it doesn't mean he can accept his body too. If he wants to change his gender by surgery, just support his decision and respect him. He has the right to make decision by himself. Just like dating cisgender man, you don't have the right to take control of his life. Some
transgender men may vacillate between the pronouns of 'she and he', 'her and him', just respect their pronouns. Body language is a good way to make trans men feel comfortable in dating. For most transgender men, hormone therapy is the best way to change their body and gain confidence, because it can increase their masculinity.
